Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Communication tips with an ex-spouse that is difficult to deal with.

1. Do not swear at the other parent or talk bad them under any circumstances.
2. Communicate by email alone, unless it is an emergency then do text or phone call. That email should be one topic and no more than five sentences.
3. Do not accuse the person of causing any problem this will only make the situation worse.
4. Never talk negatively about the other parent when you have your parenting time with the child. You never know when the child is present and what the child will repeat to the other parent.
5. Always end an interaction with the other parent by saying something positive.

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

5 thing that you do not do during a Dissolution

1. Do not Blog or post any details of the Divorce process on the internet, i.e. facebook, myspace, etc.; 
2. Do not put anything in writing of any form that can be used against you. For example, calling your future Ex-Spouse a nasty name; 
3. Do not deny the other parent time with the children unless there is a court order stating that they can not be around them; 
4. Do not have tattoos showing in court room; 
5. If the judge asks you a question answer the question that he asked.